摘 要：《三言》是明代冯梦龙创作的一部著名的通俗小说集。他以简洁、易懂的语言和轻快、流畅的笔调展现了明代的社会风貌，讲述了一个个有关男女爱情、离奇怪诞、神话传说的故事，传递着劝人向善的社会教育价值。深入探究《三言》，可以发现其中包含崇尚儒学、学优则仕，以孝为首、重视德育，关注早教、倡导实践和拓宽路径、自由选择的教育理念，倡导劝诫教导、棍棒教育，家风熏陶、家教传承和鼓励机智、培养思维的教育方式，这些教育理念和教育方式对我们现代教育有着全面教育、重在发展，宽严适当、把握尺度，尊重孩子、男女平等和以身作则、树立榜样的教育启示。

关键词：家庭教育；教育理念；教育方式；教育启示

Talk about family education in "Sanyan"

Abstract:"Sanyan" is a famous collection of popularnovels written by Feng Menglong in the Ming Dynasty. He showed the social style of the Ming Dynasty in simple,easy-to-understand language and light and smooth tone,telling the story of love between men and women, strangeness, myths and legends, and conveying the value of social education to persuade people to be good. In-depth exploration of the "Sanyan", we can find that it contains advocating Confucianism, learning excellence,filial piety as the first, pay attention to moral education, pay attention to early education,advocate practice and broaden the path, free choice of educational ideas,advocate admonishment teaching, stick education,family style The educational methods of edification, tutoring inheritance and encouragement of wit and thinking have comprehensive education, emphasis on development, leniency and appropriateness, grasping the scale, respecting children, equality between men and women, leading by example and setting an example.

Keywords: family education;educational philosophy;the way of education;educational enlightenment

 

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摘 要 h 2

Abstract 2

一、教育理念 3

（一）崇尚儒学 学优则仕 3

（二）以孝为首 重视德育 4

（三）关注早教 倡导实践 5

（四）拓宽路径 自由选择 5

二、教育方式 6

（一）劝诫教导 棍棒教育 6

（二）家风熏陶 家教传承 7

（三）鼓励机智 启发思维 7

三、教育启示 8

（一）全面教育 重在发展 8

（二）宽严适当 把握尺度 8

（三）尊重儿童 男女平等 9

（四）以身作则 树立榜样 10

参考文献 10